Wednesday, March 07, 2007

 
Muraho muraho. Apologies for my blog neglect of late. Things had been hectic with much illness, death, 2 house moves, and more.
I do have a lot I could share. Perhaps about the beautiful 26 year old man who had polio as a child and TB of the backbone as an adult. On Monday, he came to greet us in his house (about 6 ft X 10 ft total) climbing uphill in a classic crabwalk style (hands behind scooting on his bum) with his younger child balanced gracefully on his stomach. Or something silly, like how everyone here asks me if I am hungry everytime I yawn. I would be in big trouble if I was hungry everytime I was tired in life! Oh my.
However, I have been wanting to write a bit more about peoples' names here. To clarify an earlier entry: generally a baby is named at about day 8 through a celebratory naming ceremony. Though I missed my neighbor's, I did get to watch the video for 3 hours straight! Most babies are given 2 names, KINYARWANDA French, as such.
Without "taking the piss" (that is for my British friends!) as this is only my understanding of just a few names here, I thought I might try to make a bit of a creative entry through a totally fictional story wrapped around some friends' names. The story is random but relates a few of my experiences here. Enjoy...all translated Kinyarwanda names will be in italics with the (KINYARWANDA French) name following.
One day little G-d helps me to grow up (IMANAIRERE Diane) was crying to her mama. She said, "I don't know how I will learn and grow", and her mother answered, "Imanairere, G-d will help you to grow up". Little Imanairere told her older brother, I thank G-d (NISHYMIMANA Yves), "I thank G-d". But Nishymimana said he has a friend at school who is even luckier; his friend's aunt had told him that his friend will have help all his life in development of everything. He told his sister that they should go seek advice from his school friend, G-d helps me in development (MUJYAMBERE Richard).
So the two wee ones (that's for my Scottish friend Rose!) took a taxibus (a large van) to mu mujyi (town). Then they wove through town to find the Nyenyeri line as the taxi stops often switch with no apparent notification. They squeezed onto the second taxibus and slipped onto the back bench. They heard a young man, I have someone who can take my place (NDICUNGUYE Fabrice), shout "I have someone who took my seat!" They shouted back, "twicarne" (shove over) and all fit easily on the bench. Ndicunguye calmed himself as his lovely best friend, If you could you would be a hero in all areas (MUJYARUGAMBA Pierre), took both of his hands gently in his, rubbed his back softly, and told him that all will be well.
So the kids stayed on the taxibus, but as it stopped for petrol on route, a seller of nailclippers opened the window to market his product to them. A quick opportunist reached his hand through the open window and snatched Diane's cellphone. The nailclipper seller, Innocent, yelled "I am Innocent!" as sometimes these events happen with accomplices. Well, another passenger, Tresor (Treasure Paul) had witnessed the entire episode and ran after the thief, caught him and returned the phone to Diane. At this point the crowd decided against calling the police. Instead, they asked the old man, G-d heals you (HAKIZIMANA Joseph) sitting in the front to say a prayer for the thief to make him choose to be good and to thank Tresor for rescuing the phone.
Later that afternoon, in Gikondo, all 3 kids enjoyed some orange fanta, goat brochette, and had their hair done at Shaloom Saloon...and all felt good about their ability to grow and cope, with Aa little help from friends!

Yours,
MUROREKWERE Julie (When you see her give her parents a cow for dowry) or something like that!!

Comments:
yay! i'm first-
jul, that is hilarious. i'm so happy you are documenting that stuff in your blog, b/c that is what we are all missing by not being there with you- oh my gosh- too funny.
have you found any additions of things to name your kids, where you like the kinyarwanda name, french name, and translation?
hope you are having a good day. thanks for the e-mail. talk to you soon,
jennie
 
Hey Julie,

Remember me? This is David Schwartzman from summer camp; I was there in the summer of '87 but left early because of that color war/bee incident, so weird right! I happened to catch your post, and seriously so funny. The Rwandan names thing is a hoot! Well, have a great trip. Tell Jennie and especially Allie I say hello. Go fightin' unicorns!

Dave
 
julsers-
hmm...i was definitely amused by the post (but i see why others might feel differently :) ). i think half the men i met there were named Innocent! and i wonder if you have heard the same reason that joy and i heard of why babies aren't named until they are 8 days old (high infant mortality rate -- a depressing reality there). i love the story on a personal note, as it brings back memories of the taxi-mini buses never being in the same spot as you found it the last time. And of nail clippers (or other random things) being sold through the windows of the taxibuses. And of goat brochette (I wasn't a big fan -- too grissly). i love that i can relate to your stories.

So Kristof just published another contest, and this time he is taking a college student and a middle-school or high-school teacher to Rwanda, Burundi, and Congo. I wonder if it will be while you are still there. Interesting...

well, i hope your life continues to be calmer than the last couple of months. I LOVED talking to you today, and while I love hearing your stories or learning so much from your experiences, I selfishly can't wait till I can talk to you whenever I want without that annoying delay.

love,
a
 
Hi Jules,

I miss you! It was so great to read your blog. It seems there is never a dull day in Rwanda. How is everything going with you? When are your parents coming to visit? Is your new name about people thinking you should be married? No pressure if Joe is reading.
Not too much is new with me. Work has been a bit exhausting. Too much crisis; although that is becoming a relative term when I read your blogs.
I miss you and will call you soon. Love, Laurie
 
Jules,
Thank you so much for posting your hour-by-hour day on your earlier blog in January. It was amazing to read and imagine!

Things here are busy, busy, busy with wedding planning. Jason and I had a small family ceremony in February to make sure that my mom could be a part of it. It was beautiful and intimate, and we had such a good time! I am now officially Mrs. Leclaire, or as my students call me, "Kaklaire." They even write that on their essays.

I'm missing you a lot but glad you're having such an incredible experience.

Love always,
Kris piss
 
Birdie,

These names are so goofy. "If you could you would be a hero in all areas?"

Can I get the name "I wish I could only eat buffalo wings and never exercise?" You could be "My fingers are never far from a Butterfinger or my nose." (Ha! That's a good one! :)

Love,
Joe
 
way to blow my cover yve.....!

jk
 
Hi Jewel!
Wow, what posts you've written lately. I liked the one with the daily schedule (probably not surprising that I liked that one since I am so rigid with my organization, schedules and to do lists). Only 6 more weeks until the boy is born. I am hoping that he will come a week or so early, but even then I think we will name him immediately, although waiting 8 days to get to know him before picking a name does make sense. Unfortunately I'd be afraid we;d get something like "Like to pee on my parents when they change my diaper" or "Never sleeps". We had Simone's 2nd birthday party 2 weekends ago. It was fun and boy does she love presents now (last year she didn't really care). Also, my dad had a heart attack the day after her party, so we've been busy the past few weeks. Nathan is done with his classes and he took his certification exam last weekend, and now he has to wait to hear the results (sound familiar?). Besides this there is not too much going on. I have started looking at jobs for after we move, but I will be really sad to leave my schools and my students. Some of them I have been seeing almost 3 years already. They are funny....they are finally figuring out that I am pregnant and one of them said (for the 2nd week in a row)..."You're belly is really big," to which I responded, "Do you remember what I said was in there?" And he said, "A volleyball?" :) I should get going, I am trying to make cup cakes for Simone's class for tomorrow.
Talk to you soon.
Love you! Kassi
 
Hi Julie
Hope you don't mind, I found you during a Google search on Rwandan Sign Language. I'm an American Sign Language interpreter in Boston, Massachusetts and working on a play about the events of 1994. I would love to be able to incorporate RSL into my interpretation, specifically for words like Rwanda, Uganda, Hutu, Tutsi, and town names. Would you have any ideas where I could find that information? Could I send you a list of vocabulary?

Thanks in advance for any help.
Rachel J.
rachel9@ekit.com
Boston, MA, USA
 
Hi Jules,

How are you? I guess things are busy there since you are not blogging as often. I just wanted to say that I miss you and am thinking about you. During our sedar on Tuesday we asked the "4 questions" about darfur instead of the traditional questions. I think it was enlightening for my inlaws. There is an organization here called Jewish World Watch that sent out the questions to help raise awareness during Passover. It made me think of you and miss you. I'll try to give you a call in the next week or so.

Love you, Laurie
 
Hi Julie,

My name is Dustin Dickens, I'm an American writer living in Spain (couldn't bear to be a part of the ugliness in the US anymore...hoping things will be better now). I found your blog doing a search on Kinyarwanda names in Google.

I'm working on a speculative fiction story (Sci-Fi) set in a prosperous future Rwanda, Burundi, and Darfur and two of the main characters are Rwandan Tutsi, and Burundi Tutsi/Hutu. I named them Tin and Malik respectively, but the more research I do, I realize this just won't do. The Kinyarwanda and Kirundi naming conventions are just too full of wonderful opportunity to give more depth and truth to the story.

So, I was wondering if you might be willing to help me with naming two or three of the characters in the story? If you really don't have time, I completely understand. From reading some of your blog, it sounds like you have your hands full and are doing important work over there. You have my great admiration and deep respect for doing what even the most altruistic people only pay lip service to.

My email is (dustin at naranjaweb.net) I would be willing to send you some of the story to help you get some context, but I warn you, it is science fiction, so unless you like that kind of stuff, it may not be much fun to read ;-)

Well, sorry to come out of nowhere with this kind of request, but I have to at least try!

Saludos,

Dustin -
 
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